Being Professional
Being Professional
To become professional in corporate many combination of skills are required out of such skills interpersonal skill is one sought after.
Interpersonal Communication
Interpersonal communication is a face to face communication. Question arises why do we even communicate in interpersonal communication. The answer is simple, To become courteous, conversationalist, and good listener.
I have listed down main three recommendations for good communication:
- Courteous.
- Conversationalist
- Good Listener.
These are the guidelines to be comfortable with communication
Types of Body Language.
- Body movement and posture.
- Tone or voice (Gentle).
- Touch and proximity (Don't touch).
- Timing (Don't disturb after 7 PM or after office 2hr).
- Distance or Space (2 ft or 2.5 ft).
Verbal
- Always let other finish speaking.
- Talk clearly and concisely.
Non-Verbal
- Eye contact.
- Facial expressions.
- Body Language.
To be a fully professional, the most VVVVI skills. I can say that is "asking right questions".
- The art of questioning helps keep a conversation going.
- Keep questions short, clear and easy to understand.
Recommended Book:
Talking to stranger.
- Always ask open ended questions.
- Please don't ask personal question. Keep avoid this type of question.
LAR Model of Listening and Empathy
- Speak less listen more. It is advisable by the experts.
- Do not interrupt when someone speaking.
- Not Listening to others might lead into unnecessary disagreements and fights.
- Listen:
- Thinking about the solutions before listening and simply silence your mind.
- Understand what is being said thoroughly.
- Paraphrase what they just said and then give advice.
3 steps for better understanding
- Resist the urge to speak.
- Analyze what is being said.
- Respond accordingly.
LAR Framework (Listen, Analyze, and Respond).
How to become an effective listener
- Empathy
- Listening.
Questioning and listening are very strong communication tools that allow you to be more empathetic and hence get your work done faster.

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